let go
f*** it.
that's what he said to himself.
a verveschool member. struggling to close deals for weeks. had the training, the scripts, the techniques. nothing was working.
then one day he stopped trying.
"i just stopped caring about the outcome," he told me.
everything changed after that.
prospects opened up. they shared their real problems instead of fake objections. conversations flowed naturally. he became the top performer the next month.
this is the paradox nobody talks about. the tighter you grip, the more it slips away.
prospects sense desperation. when you're too eager to close, they feel the pressure. creates distance. they pull back.
but when you detach from the outcome? magic happens.
not because you stop caring about results. because you start focusing on what's actually in your control. your preparation. your presence. your process.
the outcome depends on timing, budget cycles, internal politics. dozens of things you can't touch.
some will. some won't. so what. next.
the best sales conversations don't feel like pitches. no pressure. no urgency. just two people figuring something out together.
so tell yourself: f*** it.
see what happens.
because the sale might be theirs, but you're the one leading the conversation.